As an unmarried, ‘reformed’ Jew, I knew nothing of mikvah. Last year I took my first class at Chabad at the Posners in Boston, and since then my fascination with Judaism and the laws of Torah has grown, specifically my interest in the roles of women (I’m a woman). Since September I’ve been in a class about what it means to be a Jewish woman.
On Sunday I texted my dad, “Today I’m visiting a mikvah in Natick.” He responded, “Remind me what a mikvah is.” As I said, we belong to a ‘reformed’ temple, and I doubt my mom has ever been to a mikvah in her life. If it is more important to have a mikvah than a Torah, then why is mikvah so unknown? Although visiting a mikvah is an important mitzvah, it is incredibly personal. Mikvah is so important, that the mikvah is open 363 days a year! Yes, even on Shabbat. That shocked me. Visiting the mikvah is amazing and special for many reasons. First, this is a time when a woman is depended upon to be a valid witness. That is probably the least important aspect of mikvah, but one that I’m fascinated by.
Last Sunday my class (group of BU students and other locals) visited Chabad in Natick, and Chanie Fogelman took us on a tour of the Mei Menachem Western Well mikvah. First, wow! This mikvah is beautiful. An ocean can be a mikvah; various bodies of natural water can serve as mikvahs. But, the Rebbe insisted that our mitzvot, particularly the mitzvah of mikvah, should be enjoyable and even luxurious. Because of this, the Western Well mikvah is like a spa. This is definitely a luxurious place to experience this mitzvah. One thing that Chanie said really stuck with me—a woman’s time in the mikvah is her holy time with G-d. She related it to the holiness of the moment when lighting the Shabbat candles.
Mikvah is not always luxurious. We heard a story that in Russia when women were not able to access the mikvah, they broke the ice to dip into the water below. Can you imagine?!
There are so many interesting aspects of mikvah, and let me tell you, the Jews have thought of everything! I had so many questions about mikvah, and there is an answer for everything. I learned so much from my mikvah tour. One of my favorite things is the bowl of chewy candy as the women exit the mikvah. You enter into the mikvah in your purest form—no makeup, no nail polish, no jewelry. You take a bath, then you shower, you brush your teeth, you floss. The only thing going into the mikvah is you. Outside of the mikvah, in the lobby, there are chewy candies – and here’s why they are available for the women. After leaving the mikvah, a woman can eat a chewy candy and then there is no question about the validity of her time at the mikvah. If she leaves and feels something in her teeth she might have thought ‘was that there before?’, ‘was my mikvah night kosher?’, or even ‘should I go back?’ Get some chewy candy stuck in your teeth and then there is no question!
I could continue, I have so many more questions, but from here all I will say is learn about mikvah! It is more important for a community to have a mikvah than even having a Torah - learn why.
Kathryn Pulverman
To see some more photos of the tour, click here.